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"Hey lookaaa that.." ZAP n clickkk ! Yay u got that rite it was our invention that clicked n saved the moment for forevr! Sometimes i just wonder how things have changed for us ..How Abishek changed into Abs, Abcd to Asdf:lkjh, Books to netbooks, Farms to farmville  N Life to E-life !! Lets not get into the pros cons of the things but i was just thinking about the development man has made n how times have changed.We Love to make new friends on FB but no time for family starnge but true no ?Instead of living the moment we believe in capturing the moment, how lost life we feel if our mobile phone just shuts(Ahh hw can aneone think of dah !!) Or how our world runs on dat plastic paper (Credit card i mean :P) ...... Isnt our life has Become an E-life ? Lets Uncomplicate n lets smile !

"Just as the highest tower needs a deep foundation, so too our higher thinking is based on going deep within."     One on the most convincing pieces on  happiness. Khushwant Singh at his best. The rationale applied  to each preference is absolutely top class. EIGHT CLUES TO  HAPPINESS: Having lived a reasonably contented life, I was musing over what a person should strive for to achieve happiness. I drew up a list of a few essentials which I put forward for the readers' appraisal. 1. First and foremost is GOOD HEALTH. If you do not enjoy good health you can never be happy. Any ailment, however trivial, will deduct from your happiness. 2. Second, A HEALTHY BANK BALANCE. It need not run into crores but should be enough to provide for creature comforts and something to spare for recreation, like eating out, going to the pictures, travelling or going on holidays on the hills or by the sea. Shortage of money can be only demoralizing. Living ...

Y ou have no control over what has already happened but what happens next depends on how you react.You curse,utter bad words n things get spoiled..! Somebody has very rightly said that: Don't make promise when you are in joy Don't reply when you are sad Don't take decision when you are angry ! You Harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over n she breaks down in tears,then you turn to your spouse and criticize her for keeping the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows.You storm upstairs and change your shirt.Back down stairs your daughter is busy crying nand finishing her breakfast and getting ready for the school.She misses her school bus.You drive your daughter to her school .Because you are driving late you drive hastily and reaching 15 mins late to your daughter's school after throwing heavy fine for overspeeding.Your daughter ran without saying Goodbye to you. After reaching your office late by half an hour you realis...

Image via Wikipedia " Oh God..wen will this end n i ll be happy again?" We all have  this kind of feeling once in a while...It seems that the hard times just sticks and the good times  flies  !!  It happens with everyone and its very natural but we all tend to be negative when such situation strikes.Worries and pains are endless,Sad but true they are our companions in the walks of life. I came across a very enlightening and true insight that Budha delivered in a form of a short incident,Read on... :  O nce Buddha was walking from one town to another town  with a few of his followers.. This was in the initial days. While they were traveling, they happened to pass a lake. They stopped there and Buddha told one of his disciples, "I am thirsty. Do get me some water from that lake there." The disciple walked up to the lake. When he reached it, he noticed that right at that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake. As a result, the water became ...

Oh..I am so in Love ..Where is the time going??.... We often have this kinda feeling wen are we are duing Sumthing we really love..May it be chilling out wd frnz or writing a good piece or drawing a picture,crafting or dancing. It is  always said that do what you love but do You think is it practically possible in a country like ours .. Noo  !   Bt my say is Dont leave What you love  !! Its true that sumtimes we cannot earn all dat well just from the things that we actually want to do But by following this simple principle we earn a lot more then we actually planned,Not in terms of money but in terms of satisfaction n peace.We do what we are supposed to do,we often live others dream n in practise of all dis we often tend to lose our personal interest n boast that we are actually SUPER BUSY !! In the midst of our responsibility laden life cant we  just steal some moments out to do something that brings joy to our heart..ofcourse we can !Try doing what u use...

"Enti Pinti pocket pinti dhaya dhua dhus..agli bagli bus u go out" ... Magical lines...chanting whom we all have grown up n made most of our best choices ..isnt it !! Lyf was too gud na.. wen we were small...no responsibilities, no egos, no tensions..No selfishness, no tantrums, fights bt till da next meeting only.. Ahh i wonder hw sweet were dose innocent daz ! I know everybody of us long for those moments but u knw dose moments are forever for the people who never let the child in themselves die..No run from the fact that ..Life becomes so monotonous n circumtances demand us to be professional  once we are independent N we have responsibilities but u knw we can always create happiness around us By duing little things that makes us happy :) may it be playing games or acting kiddish ! You know sumtyms wen we let our inner child handle things, it not only relieves us.. but also creates moments of happiness for oders ! The little things we do,the little noises we m...

I was all lost n full of remorse as i dint knew where m heading.Ahh..n den wen i found out the magic key * It happens with all of all that even after we are sincere enough in our work(OR ANETHING) but still we feel that it is not fetching us the same  rewards,that we expected..n in this series of event we tend to lose hope n our work start detoriating even more..n we end up messing evrything !! We tend to be angry all the time n look up with a jaundiced eye to everyone which creates a atmosphere of negativity around us...n if not controlled it consequenses are hard to bear .. Relax !! We can control every bit of our reaction even before its too late Try simple things..Simply relax..Summoning up energy, enthusiasm and determination to complete tasks well is just as important as defining good plans.Decide what you are going to do and find ways to make work enjoyable, rewarding and meaningful.  Fuel your life and your work with fun.When you make work fun you never have to to...

Its not easy to let go off someone wen u really want him to stay !Ahh ...I ve been feeling this so lately ..Its not about only the closed ones wen they part even the ones Whom u met sum days before, their presence or there charm affects u enough to miss them in their absence . Somebody very rightly quoted that " Its not the TIME that matters but its the TIMING" N i am really impressed by the beauty of this line.Sometimes even after spending years with someone u may not feel the bonding which sumtyms u feel in just some days..It happens with all of us that not only the ones we are close to plays a role but also the ones who somehow becomes a part of our daily routine tend to affect us when they leave. He may be a stranger passing smile to u evryday in bus or a small kid waving you goodbye or a shopkeeper who wishes u everymorning, may be a teacher,a frnds pet or aneone, anything,.,Wen parts leaves a temporary pain in our heart . In the flow of enjoying our lives we often t...

Bollywood sucks...not me Imran says this n even proves it !! Ya i hope u got wt m tolking about...Who wud not want to go outn njoy in sucha  ausum mausam after a long seemingly never ending Summers ..So did i !! Ahh i was thinking about the melodrama wt dese guys show ..confusing a simple crush with the most overrated emotion "Luvvvee"..uhhh !! Its better to puke out wtz dere in ua mind i believe !! Ya.. so I dont understand why people end up creating so much of a confusion By taking everything so damn seriously .Y dont they just relax n think n let tym ripen up the fruits for them ..I never understand this .N U know the thing that i really hate is when the person u consider frnds wd u takes everything of you damn seriously n end up showing u up wd a teary eye..oh god  why da hell y do people assume things by themselves which hurts them ultimately.No no m not at all against dose special feelings but wot i feel is if u have sumthing for sumone you should tell them initially on...

S peech by Chetan Bhagat at Symbiosis ... Don't just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order.   There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions. "Life is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same is with life where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die. One thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. Life is not meant to be taken seriously...

U believe in philanthrophy ?I guess most of you mite be ...as is it well said "punaye-daan" in our mythology..do we really do a punya by offering money wenever some poor thing asks for it ? R u really helping dose poors asking you for help..I have a completely different view to this, wenever i see some one taking alms from someone my heart really aches n not becoz of da dreaded conditions of the poors in our country but by the stupidity of people who offers them alms n help them increase their beggar family . Every body of us knows the cons of such acts but i dont understand that then too y people in our society helps it to rise ..It is a basic nature of a human that if can get anething without much effort n pain then why would he choose the difficult path coz its really easy to compromise over the values for someone who has been born n brought under such conditions.N we make them feel right by showing our generosity which actually is harming them instead of doing anyt...

Hi there, U wished for sumthing n ah..it came true n exactly da same way u wanted it to be ..but that was in ua mind ..how cud it happen so exactly u thought it shud be n u left astonished that is it really happened wid me ..Did u notice anething like dat ever ?I Did notice  !! U know i just feel that this universe is phenomenal ..i mean that its a reflection of our thoughts n deeds on us that we actually face in real life .If u feel that u r happy this universe will grant u happiness n if u count ua pains then they will increase undoubetly..No no m not tolking sumthing philosphical bt u knw i seriously have felt that thing n it happens in such a nascent form that will leave u wondering is it real ? But then u ll ask if dat is da thing then aneone or infact everyone can b happy or get woteva he/she wants ..even that tickled my mind(Ya i have one! ) !! Then i ll say that there is olwaz two point of views linked with everything that occurs like if u feel that u r fat then u r s...