live happily

Human is the only creature whom God has gifted da supreme power n thats the power to communicate,the power to express one's own views n notions,the power of saying  woteva we feel like to aneone we want..! But then why at times we dont utilize this mystical power to allow ttthings not to pile on n complicate.Yes..m referrring to the situations when we feel strongly bout something but we dont share and thus keep on adding the burden on our minds which ends up making things worse.C'mon " Say it ol " it really helps us to unwind the negativities which are born n nurtured in our minds,Our relations are tender and thus should not be bothered wd the communication gap. Sumtimes retaining ttthings at one end due to the fear of letting the othre person hurt,might hurt him more by pilling it up.If you have a problem say it,communicate,coz thats the harmless tool which will help you to understand the things better.Nothing can ease you better than it,for there is no use to stra...

I am confused ..totally confused for how, indeed why do people want everything on a affaedavit??Are they insecure..do they feel cynical about everything or are they have big fears of loss ??? Woteva the reason may be but this causes a real brainstorm.. atleast for me!! Anewaz letz tolk straight,m tolking about COMMITMENT PHOBIA that most of usually feel.I generally fail to understand why are we are so much insecure about our relations when we actually know that the person is all true for us. See..my point is that, being a social animal we all need company and we all have got enough wisdom to choose our jolly fellows (sorrow ones too {wink!})with whom we would love to move on and yes we have placed a gud amount of trust on them and never fail to call them as our best buddies but then why we alwaz keep them on sword's edge?? Why do we alwys tend to judge them at every point?Life is so unpredictable and no one can take guarrantee for anything ,then why bothering ourselves and our lo...

We have the habit of making worry our constant companion.Even for small things,we worry a lot.Consequently there is a continuous feeling of unesiness and there seems no easy way to "cast off" our worries. However,we can train our mind to forget things which are a source of stress.There is a story of a school teacher,who always entered his class with a glass containing some water in it.He held it up for all to see and asked the students"How much do you think this glass weighs?"He got pat the reply that exact weight will be known only after measuring the weight of the glass.Then he asked them "what would happen if i held it up like dis for some minutes? "Nothing" Said the students."Ok, What would happen if i held it up for an hour?"The teacher askd."Your arm would begin to ache sir"said a student. "You are right,now wot would happen if i held it up for a day?""Your arm could go numb you might have a severe muscle stres...