Respond, DON'T REACT...

You have no control over what has already happened but what happens next depends on how you react.You curse,utter bad words n things get spoiled..!
Somebody has very rightly said that:
Don't make promise when you are in joy
Don't reply when you are sad
Don't take decision when you are angry !

You Harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over n she breaks down in tears,then you turn to your spouse and criticize her for keeping the cup too close to the edge of the table.

A short verbal battle follows.You storm upstairs and change your shirt.Back down stairs your daughter is busy crying nand finishing her breakfast and getting ready for the school.She misses her school bus.You drive your daughter to her school .Because you are driving late you drive hastily and reaching 15 mins late to your daughter's school after throwing heavy fine for overspeeding.Your daughter ran without saying Goodbye to you.

After reaching your office late by half an hour you realise you have forgotten your laptop at home ..!!

Your day started terribly !!

N it seems to get worse and worse.You look forward to cuming home and u find a small wedge in your realtioship with your spouse and daughter.

So wot was responsible for you having a bad day was YOUR reaction in the morning !

You had no control over what has happened wd the coffee but how you reacted in the post 5 secs determined your day.

It happens often with all of us that when we are bothered by something we tend to react in a negative way..Cursing and accusing people even who has nothing to do with it and mostly they are our closed ones and we end up messing everything around.

So weneva therz something wrong relaz, take a deep breath and do not CRIB !!

N everything will be alrite !

Rememba ..
Disappointments are like road humps,
they slow you down
a bit but you enjoy
the smooth road afterward.
Don't stay on the humps too long.

Move on!