"C PHOBIA"

I am confused ..totally confused for how, indeed why do people want everything on a affaedavit??Are they insecure..do they feel cynical about everything or are they have big fears of loss ???

Woteva the reason may be but this causes a real brainstorm.. atleast for me!!

Anewaz letz tolk straight,m tolking about COMMITMENT PHOBIA that most of usually feel.I generally fail to understand why are we are so much insecure about our relations when we actually know that the person is all true for us.

See..my point is that, being a social animal we all need company and we all have got enough wisdom to choose our jolly fellows (sorrow ones too {wink!})with whom we would love to move on and yes we have placed a gud amount of trust on them and never fail to call them as our best buddies but then why we alwaz keep them on sword's edge?? Why do we alwys tend to judge them at every point?Life is so unpredictable and no one can take guarrantee for anything ,then why bothering ourselves and our loved ones for things that cant be handled.Ya, ensurities might be a gud reason for this but sometimes we tend to make it an excuse for our insecurities which is really hurtening.For relationships are like a tender rope which is stablized by the strength of trust and once the trust shakes, the rope breaks and cant be binded again without a knot.

When you have placed trust on sumone ..feel free and let the other one too n enjoy the beautiful essence of it rather than sulking it in the weight of commitments and promises because beautiful relations are not boasted but are felt within hearts !!!